21 y/o virgin here with a virgin gf
She finally wants to fuck this weekend but I'm not sure I'll be ready for it as I think I've completely ruined myself with various degenerate fetishes, porn, and a once a day masturbation routine and as a result can't get aroused normally. I've been told that jerking it to explicitly imagination while simulating a vagina or mouth as close as possible (i.e. no choking or death griping) will help, but its a real fucking workout trying to get hard then stroke to climax purely using imagination. Only tried it once and went right back to porn the next day just because I didn't feel like I could keep up the routine.
Maybe I'm weak willed or doing something wrong but I've got a feeling that this problem wont fix itself on its own. What should I do? I'll probably be sleeping with her this Saturday night so that leaves me roughly 3 days to do whatever to try and fix myself.
>>18651582
Stop masterbateing and look at zero porn.
Maybe don't fap for a couple of days?
>>18651592
>This
Just do a no fap routine and then It should be easy to bring it up Anon.
>>18651592
>>18651608
I've tried that but I can never make it more than a couple of days because of being caveman-tier horny or being absolutely devoid of sexual desire, the only way to fix the latter is by jerking it to reset the cycle
>>18651623
Well aren't you going to have sex in a couple of days anyways? Just ask her to jerk it for you.
Let's be honest, most first timers won't cum the first time or will cum after one minute or two. Just relax about it,try to learn what she likes to get her off. That's all you need Anon. Don't over think it.