Is there something that makes a person the antithesis of girls? I'm a guy, very smart, good looking, have a good job and life overall. I also have a lot of friends I do stuff with, going to lots of vacations and doing a lot of cool crazy shit. I can say I have a relatively awesome life, but for the life of me, I can't get a gf. No, wait, I can probably bullshit a girl to get with me but it usually ends within the month.
In the meanwhile I'm very sociable and funny and I make friends everywhere I go. Am I too much of a friend material? How do I improve on my sex appeal/make girls fall in love with me beyond friend shit?
You recognize a tree by the fruit it bears. One of the things you believe about yourself must come across differently; see to it and fix it.