Not sure what to do now. I've been friends with this guy

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Not sure what to do now.

I've been friends with this guy for about a year but 2 or 3 months ago we started going out on dates and what not... im the shy type but whenever we hungout he seemed to like that so he asked me to hangout often and what not.

Things go well for a while and then last night i ask him if he wants to take a trip to california with me for vacation and he was silent for a while and told me "I really wish you wouldnt cling to me, its not fun" and i asked him what that even meant and he explained how the reason he liked me and went after me was because he likes it when women don't give him attention, it's like a challenge but once they give him the attention he wants, he loses interest and its something he can't control apparently so he ended up getting out of the car and i texted him a couple times this morning and nothing.

I dont have much dating experience but is this kind of behavior normal from a guy? are some guys just in it for "the challenge" ? he didnt sleep with me or anything, the most we did was kiss and he seems like he's completely done.

tl;dr guy i like only liked me because i didnt like him and now that i like him, he doesnt like me. what do?