>good at talking to people, girls especially somehow >but

>>18646580
I WAS shy in the past but I'm over that gayness. But now I'm left with 0 experience/idra what the fuck to do, because of how I used to be

if you are interested in seeing her again, ask her, if you can see her again and if you can have her number

no seeing her again = no progress for you

also if you have no problems talking to her, you will then have to show her, that you are also sexually interested in her, probably not in the first or second date but afterwards you will have to show her.

>>18646605
I don't have problems talking to anyone though is why I am scratching my head at this shit.

I guess I am so ingrained in my loner habits, I can't imagine how I would even do that. Like how would that even make sense if it's a random girl that sat next to you in class and flirts back and forth with you + talks to you afterwards

Talk me about your expectations.

>>18646640
uhh literally anything other than walking away like a retard with autism pretty much.

example of non-girl. in this one lab you spent probably 95% of the time "waiting" for shit to cool, boil, etc. and my two partners and i would just fuck around telling stories and jokes, laughing our asses off to the point of tears sometimes (in a stupid ass lab...).

they were fun guys and i know they would be cool to "hangout with", but I DONT KNOW how to make it happen.

I guess I am also kind of afraid of appearing desperate?

It's been happening so long that now I am self-aware enough to realize I'm getting weird looks/vibes from people for this.

>>18646667
>enough to realize I'm getting weird looks/vibes from people for this.
as in, for being the retard who's ass is basically on fire to awkwardly walk away as soon as possible

>>18646667

You seem italian to me.

You are not the autist of course, they are. I think you come actually as a too much confident guy, and this can be a limit (even if there are billions of people who would like to be so much confident) but more probably you and them have different premises.

I'll spoonfeed you: you have to ask if you can meet to have a beer or hang out somewhere. You see, it's not easy because maybe they see you as a coworker. And no matter how much fun they have with you, they won't let you to patronize them, neither in a good or a bad way. And this is fine, useful and correct behaviour to protect your personal boundaries.

You see, even if I'm like you, I learned to ground my extroversion and I also discovered that I'm much more of an introverted person. Do it, and you will come more of a trustworthy, reliable person. People will easily want to share their life with you if you will be able to balance your personality towards a more structured and well educated one, maybe following more the etiquette than your guts. Godspeed, if you want to ask more, feel free to do it.

While you talk, I do.