How do I tell my wife that I don't want to have sex with

>>18645342
Almost no 10-year couple finds each other "exciting".

If you can't get it up for your wife you have deeper relational issues that you aren't sharing. Why do you hate your wife, faggot?

>>18645342
How about you talk to her and both of you can figure out a way to make sex exciting again?. You think it's going to hurt her when you say "you don't excite me anymore"? Wait until you say "I don't want to have sex anymore". Your so far up your own ass and assuming everything. You can't even fathom the idea of sitting down and have an honest talk with the women you spent TEN YEARS. Are you 5? Are you afraid you might hurt someone's fee fees? Well it's gonna happen either way but at least come together and problem solve. I don't get this "I need to isolate myself and not communicate" bullshit mindset. Be a fucking adult, at least do it for your kid.

>>18645342
Also, you're watching porn. Stop it.

>>18645342
So, what about her doesn't arouse you anymore.

>>18645365
(Fapping intensifies)

>>18645364
Bro, get out of your feelings. Most women stop giving a shit about being fit and cake on the makeup while packing on the LB's. Fat wife syndrome is real. And you don't get a pass for a baby after the two year mark. Even obese people can lose 30-40lbs in a two year span

>>18645342
You should try to spice things up in the bedroom instead of just writing this off. Grass is greener where you water it. Also anal. Maybe threesomes.

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This thread is a dead as your marriage

Psych major w/minor in counseling undergrad here.

This is beyond the scope of an unprofessional anon's advice. I HIGHLY suggest you visit an MFT who specializes in couple's therapy, and tell them what you told us. You might want to visit them first before bringing your wife. By the sounds of it, you're headed towards a break-up, mostly because of your own non-attraction to your wife, but that's not to discount the fact that she may or may not be contributing to this. Any good therapist should consider both perspectives on an issue like this. But obviously, if it's mostly you falling out of love, then you probably need more targeted therapy.

Look. If you don't want to, or can't spend the money, then I would suggest talking to friends (do you have any) and see if they've gone through this. This should come as no surprise, but most couples go through this. Romantic relationships are like a roller coaster -- it has ups and downs. It would be a shame to pull the plug when you might rekindle your flame in just a few weeks/months. Have you considered taking your wife on some romantic getaway? Like a second honeymoon type of thing? I highly suggest you do that. It's important to break away from your domestic life, and just see your partner for what she really is -- your partner/your lover/your best friend. You can't always see that in married life.

Well this is probably the limit of what I can give you advice on. Please see a professional before doing something rash, like telling your wife that you don't love her anymore. It will be very hard to come back from that.

Best of luck.