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Hi i have a cousin who is 26 yo and he just leave his work im a shop after 3 days again because he said eveyone laugh, insult and shamed him, he said everyone were bad persons there and he leave.
This is not the first time this happend to him, happened the same to him 2 years ago in a bar and the same 3 years ago in another bar, and the same in his high school, he had no friends never and said everyone were bad people and stay always alone.
Do you think he is for real or he has some problem?
Maybe is body language, expressions or something made people angry with him? Why people are like this to him?
He always stay at home and dont have friends, he never had a gf but i have been with him some times and he is handsome and very very funny, i dont know why he is like this
Why this only happends to him and not to most people?
Sorry my english, Thanks
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>>18643730
If he is a shut in, he will struggle talking to people.
He might be getting bullied, he might also be imagining it because he is anxious.
Ultimately, him bitching out and running away is his downfall, because he doesn't socialise, he doesn't get any better, because he bitches out and runs away, he doesn't socialise.
This happens to other people, but your cousin is a special case, because he doesn't talk or improve his situation.
Tell him about a website called meetup, he can meet other social retards and improve his situation.
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>>18643730
He is expecting life to come to him, without being willing to make any effort to go to it.
EVERYONE has a bad time in their first few days in a new job, but it gets better very quickly. He didn't want to wait for that to happen. If it wasn't easy and fun right away, he quit.
Hving friends takes some patience and some work. You have to be friendly to others for them to be friendly to you. But he won't bother, and then he blames everyone else for being "bad people".
He has to learn that the ordinary things of life - working, getting along with people, finding a girlfriend - actually take some effort and patience. Nothing is going to come to him if he just sits and waits for it.
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