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hello /adv/ its been a while
I started dating this girl like 3 weeks ago, I really do like her and all but I feel like sometimes I let my happiness be dependant on her and I dont like it.
I want my old self back but obviously dont want to break up with her.
I hate feeling a bit down when she takes hours to reply or when I get lost in my thoughts and start overthinking shit.
How do I fix myself, I thought I've come a long way with controling my emotions better but once I got attached to her, shit broke down in a minute..
I think it sounds like im obssesed with her but I don't think I am, I have my own hobbies and friends and stuff going on but once I let myself really think about her and those kinds of stuff I get frustrated.
tl;dr how do i not let my happiness be dependant on someone whos not me?
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holy shit exactly me right now
dating for 3 weeks, she was really into me and I wasn't
now I really look forward to seeing her and can't stop thinking about her and it takes her hoursss to reply to texts
she also flew abroad for a week and I can't stop thinking whether someone is fucking her right now...
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>>18643486
yeah well.. wat do?
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This nervousness is just part of an early relationship. You're just getting to know each other and are learning to trust one another. Just power through and soon enough, you'll find yourself missing the mystery and anxiety of the honeymoon phase.
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>>18643510
when exactly?
I'm sick of these mood swings, thats not like me at all, I want my emotions stable again.
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