How do you tell your lover you don't wanna marry her, but

Walk up to her and say "I dont want to marry but I want to stay with you the rest of my life, I just dont like the idea of getting married"

>>18642300
>the idea of dragging the government into our relationship freaks me out
You know that in most places, a de facto relationship after a certain time period gives you basically the same rights and obligations as marriage, right? The government will be 'dragged into your relationship' with any long term relationship.

Not wanting to get married while understanding this is okay. Not wanting to get married thinking it's going to make you any different under the law is the act of a moron.

>>18642306
OP BTFO

>>18642306
Illinois doesn't recognize common law marriage

honey, i don't wanna marry you but i want to stay with you forever