So im lonely af my whole life and i'm done with people that i met so far, no one of them appeared to be a real friend. How do i make a real friend? Like a brother i choose, someone who will want to spend time with me, have adventures, do things that we will memorize after years?
>>18642274
They don't exist
Adjust your expectations of people
Go to activities you like as there might be ppl with shared hobbies, or volunteer for some shit like dog shelters or cleaning beaches, working together creates bonds.
Someone that will probably share my hobbies, but not necessarily, someone who will be at the same level as i am cause so far all people were too stupid for me, no one felt a need to educate about philosophy etc.
>>18642291
well your only way to get around it is meeting a lot of people and filter out.
how do i get to know a lot of people then
>>18642274
Real friends don't appear out of nowhere. They develop from acquaintances.
You have to meet lots of people. Have a big circle of people you know and can be pleasant with. From within them will develop a smaller circle of people you hang out with. From within them will be a smaller circle of real friends. And from within them will be the best friend.