So I'm in a tricky situation. >Meet girl at Christmas

>>18639492
>I honestly haven't seen a single clue that she likes me back
Always act as if she already likes you = confidence
>Talk about a lot of very personal subjects like dating experiences, our problems, tell her about all my insecurities and what not since we talk so well together
Nothing makes a girl wet like hearing about a guy's insecurity. kek, nah faggot, she's not into you

>>18639585
Congrats fag, I already stated that pretty much.

Still open to feedback...

>>18639638
Congrats fag, that's why you can't get a girl and you're a pussy.

>>18640121
>Lets extrapolate an entire social life based on 1 greentext

Our relationship just evolved that way, she's shared quite a few intimate details too. I don't go around spilling the beans to every pair of tits I meet.

>>18640152
Excuses, faggot. You've already lost.
You know that. If you were a winner, you'd be fucking her now instead of posting about it.

>>18640183
Thanks for the insight mr. 14 year old.

Just fucking ask her out so you can stop worrying about this shit.

>>18640188
>y-y-you're just 14
Don't ask retarded questions on /adv/ if you can't handle the heat. I don't even have to insult you any further. Your choices and consequences are punishment enough. Whatever witty response you give from here won't mitigate or ameliorate that.

Next time, don't be some emotional bitch to a girl you're interested in. Simple facts: women aren't attracted to that.

>>18639492
>>18639492
You seem like the kind of guy that doesn't really want nor need platonic female friends, so you might as well go for it, if it all fails you won't really lose anything. Ask her out

>>18640194
The problem isn't that I'm afraid to ask her out, but rather what impact it might have on my friendship with her if she says no.

Ive puzzled with the idea of something as unromantic as an email which states that she can just ignore it if she doesn't feel the same way.

>>18640198
So you haven't even read the greentext properly, why are you still replying?

>>18640200
What makes you say that?

>>18640202
Am I wrong? Maintaining a platonic relationship with a female you're attracted is just not worth it. There's plenty of people that you can hold great conversations with but wont cause you any inner conflicts and fuck your head up. Plus, you already know if you wont ask her out the question of "what if" will only deepen your confusion and anxiety.

>>18640210
Well I just value it a lot. The relationship is really cathartic so losing it would be a great loss for me. I don't have anyone else to share these thoughts or feelings with so in that regard, I'd feel really shitty without it.

>>18640202
>worried about "friendship"
>sharing feeling via email
Look mate. Just stop. I'm going to stop being a dick and actually share bitter truth with you. It's over. You've got to stop focusing your efforts and thoughts on one girl. Stop thinking you can win a girl over via friendship. Stop thinking that feelings and emotional talks will lead to a friendship.

Girls have girl friends for that. Be a man. On the next girl, just assume she's attracted to you. Swiftly ask her out, and don't talk about emotional fu-fu nonsense.

>>18640222
Find a bro to talk this over with. Or a doctor. And stop being so sappy about it.

>>18640222
Just as you would feel shitty being an orbiter that never had the balls to ask her out. She wont be your emotional sponge for long, you're much better off finding a guy friend, even if it's an online friendship, you could share your emotional holes with.

>>18640224
You still haven't understood the greentext then.

I didn't start out having feelings for this girl. In fact, when I started talking to her, it was only through concern for her friend, which has some pretty self destructive behaviour.

So I started talking to her more and more, and found out we have a lot in common. As we grew closer as friends, we just shared more and more of our insecurities, which was the normal way for our friendship to develop.

It's not until this very recent trip that I developed feelings for her, so your whole "win girls over with friendship" is not something I've actually done or even pursued. Feelings wasn't even on the table until then, before she was just a close friend.

>>18640228
Contrary to the viewpoints of many, I don't view being sappy as a bad thing.