How do I know if I'm attractive?
I feel like I have on and off days of being attractive when I look in the mirror.
However, I always feel like girls are interested in me, but my confidence is just too low to flirt back. I'm good at hiding this though and "pretend" I'm confident (if that makes sense).
How do I get over seeing myself as ugly?
>>18639443
>How do I get over seeing myself as ugly?
It's pretty normal to be extremely hard on yourself and to obsess over flaws that no normal person is going to pay attention to.
Post a pic tho IMO
>>18639456
I feel like I'm always looking for a mirror to examine myself. Is it really that normal?
>Post a pic tho IMO
Best I can do is post a youngish TC. We have the same jaw, eyebrows, nose, but I have slightly bigger lips.
>>18639443
Same. I'm a cross between young David Lee Roth and Jim Morrison and my confidence is in the gutter.
I'm turning over a new leaf though. I've beaten myself up for so long for being a drag on the people around me because of my negativity, and now I've taken to fighting those negative thoughts. About twice a month I'll have days where I feel so low that I want to suicide, and I believe that this fixation on negativity is the root cause of my anxiety and panic disorder and my shitty self image. I would encourage you to do the same.