How is a second date supposed to go? I haven't gotten this

It depends on your and the other's personality, chemistry, and probably social rules in your country.
Here, having sex on the first date is a normal thing.

How did the first date go, what did you do, do you feel comfortable with the other? Plans on where to go for the second date, and what to do?

>>18638247
I think she's somewhat religious and she's coming out of a physically abusive marriage, so I'm not going to push the sex thing. I'm not really after that anyway. I just like her.

We had a better time than either of us expected to have on the first date, which was last weekend. I got reservations at a place near my apartment, paid for dinner and drinks, and then we watched a rainstorm roll over from the inside of a coffee shop afterward.

We met through a phone app, but we knew each other from college about 5 or 6 years ago. We were never close then, but we're comfortable with each other going into this from the start, which is helping I think.

Tonight we're going to a place with a pretty different atmosphere, more of a porch sort of thing with live music and wood tables and string lights and shit.

I'm not trying to fuck, I just really don't want this to go badly. And in my experience with other things in life, the more you don't want to fuck something up, the more likely you are to try way too hard and fuck it up.

I've had terrible problems with anxiety in the past and I'm trying to keep that under control right now. Typing this is helping.

>>18638266
Fucking is the first step of a relationship

>>18638266
You're doing perfect. Honestly. I could never expect a date like that with any man around here. My only tip is; be honestly blunt. Talk to her about things. Once you open up, and she does too, then it will only make things easier later.
Relax. It's going well. Oh, I'd probably stay away from the alcohol as well.