yo /adv/, How can I just stop being hung up on someone. I try

Cut contact and do therapy interventions to let go of that person. There's no other way.

If you have victimhood syndrome, you hang out around him or constatnly think about what you two could have been together in a relationship. Remember to tell your friends all about for years and years; Im sure they will appreciate it.

>>18635324
Stop pining Ashleigh, and maybe move on to one of the dozen or so guys that actually want to date you.

>>18635324
>he doesn't want a relationship,

Speaking as someone who doesn't want a relationship, it comes and goes.
Unless he's literally slaying pussy and that makes affection pretty much disposable and replaceable, there will be times where he wants more..

Bust a move.

>>18635410
The thing is, we've pretty much told each other we're just friends. But since then, he's been acting like a lot-more-than-just-friends type. Lots of affection that a boyfriend would act an give. So, it did fuck me up with how I should act or feel.

>>18635490
If you like the way he is treating you, let him. Just concentrate on keeping your own emotion in check. Some guys just want a QT they can show a little love to without making a life decision.