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So I'm in a tricky situation.
>Meet girl at Christmas party
>She and her friend talk about a hiking trip they're going on, asking people around them to join
>Pretty interested in going
>Hook up with girl at party
>Date her for a few weeks but we break it off, nothing awkward
>Start talking to her friend a lot
> Decide to go on said trip
>Talk more and more with the friend
>Talk about a lot of very personal subjects like dating experiences, our problems, tell her about all my insecurities and what not since we talk so well together
>Spend a lot of time together
>No feelings for the friend before trip even though she's pretty much what I'm looking for in a girl
>Go on trip, it's amazing
>Somehow developed feelings for the friend during the trip
>I honestly haven't seen a single clue that she likes me back
>Everything feels kind of empty now
Not sure what I should do man. I mean I'm pretty sure she'd reject me if I asked her out, but I don't know if I should just man up and get over it then.
What do you guys think?
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>>18633489
You fucked her friend. She will find out (if she hasn't already) and that will decide your fate.
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>>18633507
Oh she already knows, she even knew the night we hooked up. It's not really an issue.
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>>18633489
Honestly OP just give it a shot. You will never know until you try, screwing her friend will throw a wrench into it, you're right you would probably get rejected but it's better than just sitting and wondering "what if" for a while and see her with another guy and get a bit depressed. Step up, wear it on your shoulder and either drop a hit the best way you can without it being autistic or creepy and if she doesn't pick it up then I'd say that ship has sailed or wait to see if she's slow idk it's not only guys that are oblivious to hints
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>>18633529
The friend screwing isn't really an issue with her though.
I suppose I could try the hint but I'm not all that subtle.
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>>18633536
Well keep it natural, don't force it otherwise it's worse than being kinda cringe. How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 though 10? I believe that 7+ can just exist and say cute shit and they will dig it
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>>18633541
I'm probably a 7. I run, work out, high paying job, all that jazz.
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>>18633547
I'm taking it as you're in your late 20s maybe 30s, woman are attached to stability. If you show her that, I think it would be stronger than just being smooth
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>>18633551
I'm 29 and she's 32.
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>>18633553
Show her you're an adult and can take care of her. A lot of women really seek for that in a relationship
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>>18633611
How does one do that?
Also she's a really independent type so she doesn't need any handholding.
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