So I did it- I managed to secure a FWB. I've had this friend for about half a year now and it was pretty obvious there was a lot of sexual tension from the beginning, but about a week ago she just became very forward and we started exchanging nudes, videos, and roleplay. Yet it was obvious neither of us want a relationship or to ruin the great friendship we have. But here's the problem, we're both heavily into Dom/Sub play (myself being dominant) and she said she wants to try it out irl. I've only lost my virginity to one girl who was really pure and prude and didn't want to try anything. But I feel like in roleplay I may have hyped myself up as some kind of Dom sex god because I got so into it but never done it. Should I just go for it and try not to fuck up and risk messing this up by not being that good/inexperienced or is there another way?
what exactly are you afraid of messing up? It seems obvious you should go for it
>>18633391
Essentially I'm afraid of not being as dominant as I led on, being very rough and demeaning, when I'm a very quiet guy who tries not to hurt people. But I guess I feel it in me, I just don't know if I'm gonna fuck it up.
>>18633406
genuinely aggressive people don't make good doms. I'm sure you're worried about nothing
>>18633410
Interesting, thanks Anon.
>>18633375
You cant know untill you try it.
Be carefull,you and possibly her fantasized about it, but irl it can be quite different, so dont get upset if it doesnt go as you imagined it.
>>18633375
Just start slow and ask her very specific questions about what she likes or what crosses the line beforehand. In the heat of the moment I'm sure you'll do fine, you just have to pay alot of attention to her reactions to evrything you do. Moans, squirms, ect. Dont be afraid to push a little if it looks like she's really enjoying it. Good luck op
>>18633459
>>18633426
Awesome, thanks a bunch guys