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I'm 19 and I'm dating a 17 year old girl I met over the summer. I'm going to college out of state and she wants to do long distance, however I don't really have much interest in doing so, as I have done it before and it did not work out.
I imagined our relationship being more of a summer fling but she kind of forced me into making it a relationship.
Lately I've been meeting people from my uni (including girls), that I've talked with. I feel really guilty about talking with other girls (even in a non flirtatious way) while currently still in a relationship, even if it most likely will not last.
I am worried however about the age of consent laws given that I live in a state where the age of consent is 18. My biggest fear is that she will do something out of spite like report me if I were to break up with her. Now that would be out of character and I realize I am most likely being extremely paranoid, but I don't know how to proceed.
I do really like her but I don't believe there is a future there as we are both so young and our futures are going in different places. I just don't want to miss on opportunities because I am in a dead end relationship.
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>>18633232
Something to consider: you go by federal and not state laws when the act crosses state lines. This includes soliciting and/or arranging for sex. Also, sexting and photos. Not to mention you wouldn't just be dealing with the local cops but instead the FBI. You are in a really shitty situtation, bud.
How long till she is 18?
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>>18633238
6 months, and it hasn't crossed state lines.
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>>18633250
>I'm going to college out of state
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>>18633255
going not go
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>>18633258
Ah, my bad. I misunderstood at first.
Break it off now as gently as possible. That puts you in a precarious place but fuck man, you went in to this knowing you were breaking the law.
btw, what state are you two currently in?
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>>18633267
Oregon.
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>>18633271
Yup, doublechecked oregon's consetn laws. Its a hard 18, no close in age exceptions. Get out now before it can get any worse. Maybe look into proactively getting consel from a probono lawyer if you really think she might try something.
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>>18633232
There is absolutely no way you will be prosecuted for having sex with a girl 2 years younger then you. Even if your state has weird draconian laws I highly doubt your girl, prosecutors and a jury would want to ruin your life for such an extremely stupid reason.
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>>18633232
Is there really a problem if a 17 and 19 yo mingle? Wtf, I thought these laws were to prevent creepy uncles from fucking kids. You are basically the same age as her.
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