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My girlfriend made a nude painting of herself and put it up online,

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My girlfriend made a nude painting of herself and put it up online, I'm sightly upset about it but I realize I might just be being uptight, id prefer it if she kept her nude body to my eyes only, but am I just being possessive? Im genuinely asking for other points of view,I haven't mentioned it to her cus I'm not sure enough about my feelings on it to make it a whole big thing.
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>>18632415

>being this insecure
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>>18632415
considering she could easily be a camwhore slut, especially in this social climate, I would say count your lucky stars that she's posting paintings of herself. you could always become a muslim, though.
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>>18632432
I dont really understand your point, please reiterate or elaborate
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>>18632415
You need to keep your bitch on a tighter leash, or just fuck this one already and dump her to the masses that are ready to repeatedly ejaculate inside her
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>>18632435
Have you been/are currently in a long term relationship?
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She's probably really talented, you should be happy. Give her more attention that she wants do o she doesn't become a cam whore.
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>>18632452
I should appreciate her art more, I agree,I just hope this doesn't become a trend or the main subject of her art,I do appreciate having some things kept private to the relationship
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>>18632465
>her body is the relationship
again, become a muslim
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>>18632468
You're drawing a false equivalency I never implied, if anything I'm talking about sexuality
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>>18632472
I don't know what language you're speaking bud. I'll try to rephrase.

Many girl BIG SLUT. Your girl upload ART. Not same as PORN.
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>>18632475
Got it champ, thanks
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>>18632465

If you allow your insecurity to dictate the terms of your relationship then every girl you ever date will eventually grow to resent you and leave you. She's sharing her art with the world and she isn't ashamed of her body. The only thing that is damaged by other people seeing a painting of your naked girlfriend is your ego. Your insecurity about other people seeing an artistic rendition of her naked body is your hang up, not hers.

>>18632472

>You're drawing a false equivalency I never implied, if anything I'm talking about sexuality

The naked form is not automatically equivalent to sexuality. My doctor sees my naked body. People at the hot springs I go to see my naked body. Shit, my entire football team in high school saw my naked body and it had nothing to do with sexuality. Just because you inexorably link her naked body to sexuality doesn't mean she has any obligation to adhere to your rigid view of it. Its important to realize that this inherent possessiveness you feel concerning this issue is not a rational thought. Contemplate the concept that it isn't enough for you to be the only one she has sex with but for some reason you also demand she somehow do everything in her power to make sure that she never does anything that would cause other people to be sexually attractive to her. Does that make any sense to you?
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>>18632497
This is what I was looking for, I'll reassess my thought processes, I'm young and susceptible to insecurities so I was just looking for guidance, thanks anon
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>>18632415
Other guys have seen her nude body, they have fucked her, she has sucked their cocks, and so fourth. If you can't accept this, don't be in a relationship because in our society it's ok to just fuck all your partners.

With that being said, I wouldn't date anyone who posts anything nude online even if its for art. That is just a red flag for insecurity on their part, but I'm also rational that I know they have fucked other people. Just work on being the best fuck so girls always want you back after you are done with them. Best of luck.
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>>18632504

>This is what I was looking for, I'll reassess my thought processes, I'm young and susceptible to insecurities so I was just looking for guidance, thanks anon

That is a really great attitude to have. I'm not at all saying that your feelings are unnatural or make you a bad person. I had the same thoughts and experiences when I was young but during times like these the most valuable thing you can do is sit down and honestly assess yourself.

Ask yourself; what in my relationship is being damaged by this painting? does this painting at all alter or change the bond I have with her? Most importantly, you have to ask yourself whether expressing this insecurity of yours is worth potentially damaging the foundation of your relationship. I don't know anything about your relationship or her but I imagine if art is very important to her than it might really hurt her feelings if instead of supporting her expression you react by treating her body like your possession that nobody else gets to see even in completely non-sexual contexts. I understand where your insecurity comes from because I've been there myself, anon, but a very important part of growing up and becoming a well adjusted man is being able to differentiate within yourself which of your knee-jerk reactions are appropriate to express and which ones aren't. I might become enraged at the fact that a little kid at the park got angry and called my daughter a name and now she's crying but I have to stop and suppress my initial male paternal urge to scream and get angry and remind myself that children are impulsive and mean and learning how to have her feelings hurt is a part of growing up. That was a bit of an unrelated example but the process of introspection is the same. Don't fight it. Get used to it.
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>>18632538
Will do anon, thanks again, I'm leaving the thread now
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>>18632415
If it makes you feel any better your girlfriend made people climax just one more day, straying them from suicide.
Also we will need to see the picture for further research.
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