I'm a 19 year old dude that's looking to improve his odds of getting laid down the road, say 3 to 5 years from now on. Aside from lifting, which I already do, is there any other thing I should be doing? I'm currently undergoing college, and one thing that worries me is that I have no real hobbies aside from lifting and playing videogames. Should I drop the games in favor of something more socially interesting like sports?
I don't do clubbing (yet) and don't really 'get out there'. Say I'm in a 'coccoon' mode looking solely for self improvement before I start trying my luck. What would you guys and girls recommend?
maybe get a part time job, that'll mean you'll play games less, have more money and have something to complain about at least
>>18632328
>Aside from lifting, which I already do, is there any other thing I should be doing?
Yes. Focus on being smart, funny and empathetic. The world is full of guys who think their muscles, hobbies and nice clothes entitle them to sex. They're generally unimaginative, boring and in plentiful supply.
Be a good person. Be someone who people like to spend time with. If you truly stop giving a shit about impressing people the world of women will blossom for you, anon. A guy who lifts and clubs is not unique or interesting. A humble, light hearted guy who doesn't take himself too seriously and treats people with respect is.
>>18632370
I'm aware muscle and everything else won't entitle me to shit. I'm just trying to improve anything I can, and I think fitness is attractive. I'm not exactly humble, though, and I have no clue how to change that, since it's something much deeper than looks or whatever. But thanks for the insight, I'll work on that.
>>18632440
Work with grossly unsuccessful people. Not every day, you dont want their mindset infecting you, but they have a tendancy to over praise the dumbest things. Even if you give in to praise, itl get old and youll have to resort to being humble in order to still be able to get your shit done