Going to college for the first time and feel like it's time to try out getting sexually intimate with people.
Where do I look for good sexual advice? Who do I talk to on advice on getting a girl off--not by penetration, but the general playbook? I know it differs from girl to girl, but while I'm a virgin, I still wanna look like I have even the most remote clue of what I'm doing.
All I know is to not imitate porn and don't be a mong and shove my dick in without getting her aroused enough first so I don't hurt her. Don't ignore the clitoris, but be gentle and don't go too far with it.
How much help do I need from what little I've shown I know? I'm really worried about the "first time awkward sex" thing since I'm a good bit older than most first-time college students.
>>18632071
>where do I go for advice on women?
Don't listen or ask women for advice on other women.
If you don't have friends you can ask just look online. I use to go on RSD and they have some pretty helpful threads about this. Don't worry about it being awkward the first time. Chances are it will be but if you're with someone you're with then it shouldn't even be an issue. How old are you btw? Will you be living in the dorms?
>>18632085
28, sharing a male-only apartment with two other guys. Both have gfs.
Looks ain't too hot but I'm not uggo, and I get along with people quickly and tend to be decent at getting a laugh out of people, so I'm not worried about that and am understanding that it's gonna potentially be a while before I get anywhere. I just wanna be prepared for when it comes.
>>18632095
I was in a similar situation last year. Ended up becoming pretty good friends with my roommates and we went out a lot. If you don't have friends just go out with them and meet the friends of their gfs.
>>18632111
While I'm thankful for the advice, I don't see how it helps my main issue. Not a lot of people are willingly open to sexual advice with their own experiences to acquaintances. At least not without anonymity.
>>18632138
Yea I deviated a bit from your main question. Don't you ever talk about sexual things with your friends? Not in the fag sense but talking about girls you've banged and talking about what works and doesn't work. If you don't have friends then you'll have to find that advice online.
>>18632146
All of my friends are virgins, and my roommates find it too uncomfortable to talk about, so I'm respecting their boundaries.
What exactly is RSD? I tried looking it up but got a bunch of unrelated results.
I'll tell you the most important thing, the only universal rule to good sex, is good communication. You have to ask her what she likes. What one girl likes, the next girl might absolutely hate. Each and every new person you sleep with is gonna be a completely new game, you have to learn how to get each individual off, not just "how to get girls off".
Somwhat/mostly universal advice, go down, focus on the clit and not on penetration. Most women cannot get off on penetration alone, so you'll need to be touching the clit at all times. Most women enjoy being eaten out. (Some don't, so again that's where communication comes in, but most like it to some degree). Get down there, lick the clit, nibble it lightly, trial and error learn what gets a big reaction.
vagina owner here, read this, it's illuminating
https://www.slideshare.net/aee_fx/she-comes-first-15567847
>>18632071
>it's time to try out getting sexually intimate with people.
yeah you're not ready