Hello /adv/ first thread here. So, my situation is pretty delicate

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2017-08-17 12:47:50 Post No. 18630869
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Anonymous 2017-08-17 12:47:50 Post No. 18630869 [Report]

Hello /adv/ first thread here.

So, my situation is pretty delicate to explain, during my youth, I used to do online dating very well (like I used to have 2+ gf in the same time. After a while, I tried IRL and had a GF for 1 year before she move out (change country).

To not feel bad I deleted her, and all pictures, and some friend got me into wow, I got addicted and stopped all my games.

Now I want to get back in the game at 23, and use an application to finds girl which I easily can fuck but don't cus... idk why.

Online dating all these girls who had feeling for me and I was just playing made me real sick that's why I stopped.

Today I'm doing the same and I wonder if I feel bad about being the same as I was young, or i'm just scared of sex cus I didn't had the occasion of having sex with my first one (yes I'm virgin)..

Someone in a similare position? or who could help me with my blocage? Should I have sex with some random girl wich I spoke for a week?

Also, I believe some guys here will say "You can talk to girls and be yourself, stop raging I can't talk to girl" well we all have our problems. Help please :(

@ OP 2017-08-17 12:56:26 Post No.18630892
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Oh yeah btw I appologize in advance for my low level in english
I'm not english native

Anonymous 2017-08-17 03:30:29 Post No.18631265
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Anonymous 2017-08-17 03:30:29 Post No.18631265 [Report]

I'm not sure if I'm following completely so feel free to correct me.I think firstly you need to ask yourself if you just want to have sex or a relationship and then try to find someone who seems to want the same with you.Also if you just talk for a week with a girl online she probably hasn't developed feelings yet so don't feel guilty I guess.In any case whenever in doubt just ask what the other person what they want.Honesty is key in most cases.

@ OP 2017-08-17 03:42:27 Post No.18631277
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@ OP 2017-08-17 03:42:27 Post No.18631277 [Report]

>>18631265
Thanks for your answer, in the past, I used to do it online, now I meet them IRL (maybe I should mention that).

And it was in the past, I created feeling with stupid shit girls love, like "making a countdown before going to sleep every night" for some girl, learning what they like and seem interessed... to be honest, I like it, I say it's stupid shit but it feel good, that's why I think I want a relationship :^)
But since I'm a neet it's not realy possible (even if I have my own flat in town). I also never told this story (fully) to anyone. It feel good to tell what you feel, even if it's anonymous.

Thanks again for listening ^^

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