Hey /adv/ I just made out with one of my oldest friends. The issue is I have a girlfriend and I've been with her for over 2 and a half years. What should I do? I feel awful. Should I tell my girlfriend?
>>18629929
Yes, tell your girlfriend. Please gives us an update on how she reacts too :^)
>>18629929
Why'd you do it?
Were u forced to kiss ur oldest friend or did u do it intentionally. If it meant nothing then tell your girlfriend but if it meant something for you then think about it before telling
>>18629952
It just kind of happened like we have been friends for about 6 years now and there has always been tension.
How will your girlfriend react? Does she know this friend?
>>18629929
Ya fucked up. You feel bad. You learned. Leave it behind you.
I dont know your girlfriend but you could potentially destroy her entire dating life by giving her severe trust issues. Youre human. You made a mistake.
Seriously evaluate why you did it, if it was in the moment, whatever. If theres problems in your relationship or it stems from some deeper connection with your oldest friend, re evaluate your relationship and break up if you need to.
>>18629987
I don't know how she will react because she did want to try an open relationship months ago but I didn't want to but I eventually came around to the idea and she changed her mind. And yes she knows the friend
>>18630013
From what you have said so far she seems chill and if you give her an honest explanation chances are she will understand if she loves you. If she tries to break up then use the "you said you wanted an open relationship" argument. It might work. And if it still doesn't work and you break up then maybe you get a second chance with the other friend.
>>18629929
NO
DO NOT ADMIT ANYTHING