no one ever invites me to anything. I'm always the guy that

Dude, fucking same. When you figure it out, pls post it here.

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>>18627663
>>18627666
Two scenarios:

A. You are extrovert who need socialisation time in order to not go crazy. Then call them. Text them. Periodically ask them if they arent going out. Force yourself into their lives. Or organize the action yourself so you cant be left out.

B. You are whiny bitch nobody likes being with. Improve yourself or realize friends are overrated and get your own gf instead.

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>>18627663
>>18627666
Speaking from personal experience, steer away from (((friend groups))). Just find 1 or 2 ppl to hang out with, who preferably aren't complete fucking normies with interests similar to yours and don't seek attention/validation from other ppl (posting stupid shit on fb or whatever), AND want to socialise with a small group of ppl.

>>18627673
>implying an extrovert wouldn't have figured it out already

you need to leave

>>18627673

I am an extrovert but I have always, since 16 had trouble making friends. I'm way older now so it's not some teenage phase or whatever.

I even asked my friend about the group "has anyone said they don't like me? Am I annoying? Do I do anything wrong" and he said no. However I can't really trust his words, maybe he was trying to be nice or not hurt my feelings.

Whenever I try to hit people up I feel uncomfortable and like I'm being annoying. I also feel like they might also not want me to contact them randomly.

Usually my point of contact into getting invited is the friend, however sometimes he will make plans with me then intentionally not open his messages, then I see him hanging out with that group.

>>18627681
>implying introvert would ever wanted to go out with "friends"

>I'm not socially awkward, annoying, or ugly. When I talk to someone randomly during the day people respond positively and are friendly. I don't understand why making friends has always been such a difficult thing for me.

To add to this. I seem to do pretty decent with women 1 on 1. Women tend to think I'm a cool guy and a player. (I am not).

This adds to the confusion and makes me feel like shit, these people think I'm cool but no one likes me. Why?

>>18627684
that's why an introvert needs to find ppl who aren't complete normieshits, assuming he isn't one himself

>>18627663
Do you invite them anywhere ever?

>>18627688
You're boring and clearly not as cool as you think you are

I know a couple guys like you OP. They're extroverted and have no problems engaging with people (unlike me) but they tend to take everything too seriously and have no sense of humor, so they're simply not fun to be around.

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>>18627683
>extrovert
>trouble making friends
Does not compute. Still i got you covered phalam! You are boy. Boys does friendship through shared common activities and hobbies.

For example school. There is nothing easier than making friends who goes to same class / job as you. If you really are extrovert, invading personal space and their private lives should be super easy for you. Basically glue yourself to them and suck all their emotions and stories from them.

Asking your friends if you are annoying is retarded. You obviously are when they are actively trying to avoid you. Your friends are shit, find other. And really, if you are out of school, friendship is over. Now you are supposted to find a bitch, date her, impregnate her and marry her.

Who needs friends when you have pussy to fuck and cuddle with? And if you really want friends once you are out of school, try online games or hobbies you do in pairs or teams. You need SHARED ACTIVITY. Csgo?

>uncomfortable and like I'm being annoying
Nah. Even introverts enjoy talking with people. Always presume they enjoy your company until they tell you to fuck off. You need the social bread to survive. Take it by force if you must.

>>18627694
Real introvert will get his daily social interaction from coworkers, schoolmates, teammates from csgo / dota.

>>18627702
occasional interaction with friend doesn't do harm

>>18627663
Are you ever the one who invites THEM anywhere? Are you ever the guy who says "Let's go see the new movie this weekend"?

From the outside, shyness and social awkwardness look a lot like aloofness, and if you never reach out to them, they'll get the idea that YOU don't like THEM, and they'll respect your privacy by not imposing on you.

>>18627702

Don't go to school

I already have a girl to fuck as talk to multiple other ones(because I'm lonely and desperately need friends for my menal sanity)

I've dated women before simply because I needed social interaction

>>18627715
>Are you ever the one who invites THEM anywhere? Are you ever the guy who says "Let's go see the new movie this weekend"?

It's a group of about 6 people and they ALL work at the same place. (Except my friend who got into the group via my other friend).

No I don't ever say lets go watch a movie or anything because they all have their all plans. I'm not the "leader" of the group, or even the guy close to the leader to make any suggestions.

>>18627702
I like how you repost images from other boards.

>>18627724

I'm not that guy but this is exactly your problem. You don't need to be "the leader." I can't be bothered to ask every single person I may know if they're interested in coming to do something, even if I think they're a perfectly fine person. And, as you said, this group of them all work together, so they have an even more convenient way to be randomly putting together plans, while not intentionally holding you out.

Friendship is a two-way street. You need to be bold enough to take charge and ask people if they'd like to go do something before they consistently assume you want to join.

I have had many friends over the years who are like you - but it takes too much time to be the guy that invites them out every. single. time. I know they'd enjoy it, but I can't be bothered.

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>>18627720
Are you telling me interactions with your gf doesnt fullfill your daily needs of socialization?

Wow. Has she brain damage or something? Can she even talk?

>>18627737
Thanks.

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I'm gonna talk from experience as someone who used to have social anxiety and very much felt like I had no impact on social situations i.e. no one would have cared or remembered whether I went to something or not.

Baseline, being 'nice and friendly' doesn't mean jack shit, it just means you're not an asshole for no reason. I mean shit everyone at my work is 'nice and friendly', do you think that means they all have the same social standing / value? If your main attribute is being 'nice and friendly' you're fucking BORING.

Not counting physical prowess people value humour, intelligence and insight. The only way for people to care about your existence from a social perspective is to excel in one of these areas. Only way you're going to gain any ground otherwise is to share a common interest with one or multiple people.

>>18627757
>>18627757

No because my girlfriend is an introvert that doesn't go out

It's not like having a girlfriend will solve all your problems or fulfill your social needs. It's important to have a life outside your girlfriend.

>>18627776
Sounds like you picked wrong girl as gf to me.

>>18627663

Fuck them, if they dont wanna spend their time with you, you dont have to spend time with them. Look for other people, there are really nice dudes out there (i was in your same situation like 3 months ago and now im pretty fine in that way)

>>18627831

I wish i could say this but I have no other option

I resent them so much. I feel like the nerd who resents the cool kids.