>be 21 >have to move abroad for 1yr with uni >made this

take every chance life gives you, might be the only time this ever happens after that some other dude will probably be plowing her if it isn't you

>>18626744
Dude. Exchance students have it so easy that the thought of cucking out was never an option.

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>>18626714
oh fuck no son

I had this exact thing happen to me when I studied abroad. Everything was so perfect, and we decided it would be best to break up once I returned to the States.

We made a bad call and tried to make it work long distance. We made it about six months before she cheated on me (apparently out of loneliness), which tore us apart and drove me away from dating for about a year.

It's been two years this month since we first met and I still have it on my mind. I'm back to my normal self, but it's clear that she wants me back now that she's graduating this year and can afford to move.

I have no regrets (because I did nothing wrong), other than trying to attempt it at long distance. The outcome and the pain shadows over all the happy moments I had with her.

I hope you don't wind up in the same situation. Try and learn from what happened to me if you can.

>>18626789
>oh fuck no son
Well, duuh.

Bump before work.

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Bump again.

Long distance won't work, especially in college. Mercy kill the relationship but let her know that you really care about her and want to continue being in her life when you get back. Maintain only the slimmest of contact when you're abroad - hell, if you can stomach it just don't talk at all. This is the best way, anon, I promise you. It will hurt and you'll be depressed but you will have the advantage of going to another country to stay occupied for a whole year. Your life will be radically different.

She will fuck other men while you're gone, this is guaranteed. Accept it, and come to terms with it. You should try and get some while you're away too - exotic flings are the best. When you come back, see what's up with her, and if she's available then you know what to do. If she isn't, get a foothold back in her life and muscle your way back into your position as bf.

>>18626714
I've waited over 4 years for my girlfriend, we met each other in the holidays, she didn't cheat and I did neither because what I wanted is not lust but love.

It's your call, you were together for only 3 months, who has arguments that early in a relationship? If you really think it is not just lust and there is more you have to tell her that and hope she thinks the same.

If you can wait 2 years, why wouldn't she be able to?