so i've developed some feelings for a girl that i know.

Hey, interesting situation that I can relate to. My gf is a bit overweight (been together 5 months), and aside from that she's perfect and we're madly in love with each other. We even talk about marriage and kids after university, I'm 20 and she's 17.

Her being a bit chunky (thighs and cheeks too big, though her ass is amazing) does bother me, but she tells me she hates being that size and wants to go back to how she used to be, slim. She even showed me pictures of her like that, and yes, she looked so much better. I'm basically holding onto this as hope she does work on it.

For you, you have to ask yourself:

1. how much does it bother you?
2. does she seem like she's planning on losing weight?

For 1., you gotta think about how well you can take the mockery for being with a "fat chick". It gets to me but I know my gf really isn't 'fat', she's just a bit too chunky and she hates being like that. Doesn't help that she's 4ft 9in too, makes her proportions look odd.

2. get to know her, see if she looks smaller in older photos. Asking her out-right if she can lose weight won't work unless you both get together and you're well past at least 2 or 3 months.

If she loves you then she will lose weight for you to make you happier. Good luck mate, it's always tough this problem.

>>18623443
>1. how much does it bother you?
my only real fear is that it will affect my sexual performance

>2. does she seem like she's planning on losing weight?
she once casually mentioned she's been trying

i've seen pictures of her about 5 years ago and she was skinny (super qt too). for what it's worth, i was once morbidly obese, now i'm about 20lbs overweight (another reason i feel bad about my reservations)

thanks for the reply

>>18623468
Once I fucked a chubby for about 5 weeks to get her to lose weight.

It was fun. She stayed chubby, and I lost weight.

>>18623420
Don't date anyone you're not super attracted to- unless- it's all you can get and you can still get it up for them somewhat.