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I have a question for sexually active femanons here
So my wife and I have never really have particularly good. It started off decent, then kinda dropped in quality to eventually become horrible (I mean she gets bone dry and I'm thinking of pornstars kinda horrible). After talks, she says that she's never really been able to enjoy vaginal sex in her life (save for a few times together). How she describes it is it just feels like it's going in and out, it doesn't feel particularly good or bad, just feels. We've tried different positions and different angles, nothing works. She also says that I'm too big and some positions feel flat out painful (I'm 7.5").
She's also had a few run-ins with anal before. Her first couple of times was anal with her high school boyfriend (she's christian) and she hated it, and we had it once and he hated it. But a few weeks ago on vacation, things started getting hot and heavy and I played with her ass a little, then started fingering it, then it escalated to full blown hardcore prone-bone assfuck which was amazing for both of us.
I guess my question is, is it normal for a woman to completely despise vaginal sex but love anal ? We've been having nothing but anal since (not that I'm complaining) but I've literally never had this issue with anyone before. I've been with quite a few girls before, all of whom were major sluts and loved sex (with me included), and she's probably the most chaste girl I've ever been with. Could that have something to do with it ?
tl;dr wife loves anal but hates vaginal, am I doing something wrong or is it on her end ?
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What feels good during vaginal penetration is the inside of the clitoris (what we refer to as the clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg of a cluster of nerves) being pushed up against and essentially grinded from the inside. However it depends on the woman how sensitive the vagina is simply physically speaking. For some women the distance between these nerves and the actual vaginal wall is just too big to properly get off from penetration and if that's the case, you might see some improvement (like with getting her really amped up beforehand) but she's never going to do a 180 and suddenly love penetration.
This is, for the record, a separate issue from difficulties with climaxing. Although they are obviously often related, inability to climax for a lot of women also has to do with relaxation and ability to surrender to the moment. A woman having difficulty finishing from penetration does not necessarily mean that she doesn't love penetration, although if she doesn't obviously that will also make orgasms from it extremely unlikely.
Your size is really big as well. Generally people's perspective get skewed because so many people throw 8" or 9" dicks aorund online. In reality 7.5" is really fucking big and yes not all women will be able to comfortably accomodate you (let alone balls deep). Vaginas are not one size fits all, and them becoming looser with arousal does not mean they stretch endlessly just like dicks do not all grow to be the same size when hard. Full capacity is full capacity.
Last but not least, the ass is much roomier (except for the anus) than a vagina is and can expand to get pretty damn big as long as the woman can properly relax and lean into it. So not really abnormal for the physical part. It also does not surprise me that she prefers it if she's more sensitive there, but this is not really a common thing as far as I know. Whatever works for you works.
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She's a post-op trap, that's why, OP, sorry to break it to ya.
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