>>Have an event in a couple weeks
>>We plan for the entire year.
>>Travel cost and hotel is shared between four of us.
>>Budget is pretty tight for everyone, but we make it work, because it's our big thing.
>>Last minute one of our group has been saying it's going to be tighter than usual for him (but he does have the money)
>>Today he told me he is backing out so he can save up money and have a comfortable savings.
>>This escalates costs for the rest of us, and will pretty much make it so we can't go.
>>Pretty much too late to find a fourth.
Is he a piece of shit? Am I being selfish here? Kind of looking for advice but also looking to vent.
>>18618404
No he is not,
I am a relatively well situated person but live in Eastern Europe .Friends backing out of events/things because of financial problems is a very common problem and whenever it happens the usually supports or we all back out until the right time. Countless times we didn't go somewhere because someone had economic problems, one time we were planning a big journey across 2-3 neighbouring countries and a friend backed out because he was on a verge of losing his house to the bank
Not doing the trip was shit, but damn it's a lot better to know that a friend of yours doesn't become homeless
Remember that life is shit to some people, you don't have to be another drop in that glass
>if it's that rich friend that always pretends he doesn't have the money so he could back out than fuck that piece of shit
>>18618839
This but make sure to get murderer pussy 1st