Okay this is really fucked when you hear it all at once but I

I'm 27 now and finally have a stable life with a solid future. I was recently contacted by my sister who is a year older who admitted to me that she was molested by him, and that she had talked to my younger brother who reluctantly told her the same. I knew this was true as soon as she mentioned it. I did not admit the same happened to me but I encouraged her to do tell people if she thought it was the right thing to do. I think that she is not going to tell my grandmother out of embarrassment and the fact they have not talked in years may make it look like she's trying to stir some shit or get them for money or something (sister lived a much worse life with much worse mental illnesses and drugs). I would just leave sleeping dogs lie but I decided I must tell my uncle and his wife (only people I actually consider family other than grandparents) because they started having my grandparents watch their 2 year old son and I can't stand looking at him and seeing how ignorant and innocent he is and then think about what if the same happened to him. I'm worried about what my grandfather and grandmother will do if I tell my uncle but I just have to. How do I do this if I have never felt so much embarrassment or shame? I am thinking about writing it all in an email and telling them to read it because that to me, seems like the best way I will be able to get myself to do it. Also, do I tell them everything? Do I just leave what happened vague and tell them to keep my cousin away from him? I mostly dread the questions I will have to answer later on. Help me out people, I'm weak and scared shitless but I love my little cousin.

I think one of the main reasons I am so afraid is because there is no winning here. It will be humiliating and I worry my grandfather will kill himself out of shame, but if I don't, my cousin may be subjected to the same when he is older.

>>18615508
Save your cousins, don't let them go through what you and your siblings went through. What your grandfather did was wrong, not matter how supportive he was and whatever he is crying about to get pity. He is wrong, it messed you guys up, don't let it continue.

Do something don't stand for this shit. It's already pretty fucked how it happened to you.

I wont let it happen to my cousin, I guess I will write this in an email tonight and tell them. I'm beyond scared shitless though. Is there some way I should be saying this to them? I feel like I am a coward.

Just be direct and clear no pussy footing around this is serious shit