I've lost my mojo. I used to have no problem flirting etc, now i'm like some kind spastic who cant swim. I'm not ugly, I've had girls call me gorgeous, i even had one of the most attractive girls at my school tell me to msg her if i ever wanted to get together and fuck, but she had a boyfriend and that's not how i roll. Everyone always asks me why i'm single or why i'm not out picking up girls and i don't know what to say. I'm 21 this is my prime and i'm a little worried i'm broken or something. My standards are not ridiculously high, trust me there are times when i'm so horny that i would go for an ugly overweight girl and i have tried on tinder, even then it doesn't work out, they always end up ghosting. I don't really have any opportunities to meet any girls either, my friends don't want to go out clubbing and i don't feel like going solo, and my work is a sausage fest and all our customers are old people.
The only thing i can think of as the cause is years ago when i was still fairly young a girl broke my heart, we split up then days later she slept with her ex. Ever since this moment i have lost my mojo with girls. I'm not sure if this event is the cause but for some reason ever since then i have been at a complete loss with girls.
So you go up to them
You make eye contact and say whatever you like insane I know
i feel a similar feel, anon, at the age of 30. the difference is, i don't really try anymore. i have a small circle of friends and i just associate with the the people that they know. other than that, i don't go out of my way to talk to girls, the only time i have conversations is if they approach me first.