>throw small gathering and invite around 10 friends from school over to chill in the garden with drinks
>mindful of neighbours, don't want it to become a party, keep volume of music down at about 3 or 4 on your average Bluetooth speaker
>no complaints from neighbours
>suddenly remember I forgot to invite my oldest childhood friend who lives about 100 metres away from my house up the road from me
>feel super guilty, paranoid he heard music coming from my house
Is this possible?
If he lives 100 metres down the road, why not run along and invite him along?
>>18612793
This was a week ago. As I say, it slipped my mind, I wanted to keep numbers down, and of course he wasn't part of the "group" of friends I had over, and he's slightly awkward and has alcoholic tendencies.
>>18612797
Well if he wasn't part of the group, then it doesn't matter. If I invite work friends over, I'm not obliged to invite every single other friend I have; same principle here.
>>18612802
I feel slightly guilty because I think he's kind of lonely and bored with life and I said we'd go on some adventures and I'd see if I could get him to a social event if I had the chance to. As I say, any chance he would have heard the music from 100m up the road? (we had the music up with the comfort of our neighbours in mind fwiw).
*bump*
>>18612814
Probably not. And if you feel bad, invite him out to do something to make it up to him, but don't mention the party if he doesn't bring it up.
>is this possible?
Don't tell Harry.
>>18612775
>Don't tell Harry we're jewish, Peter.
Jesus, Raimi.
>>18612775
is everyone gay here?