I've just about worked up the nerve to ask wife for a 3

oh boy are you in for a rude awakening

>>18610909
And why would you think that

>>18610912
because you still haven't realized that porn isn't reality

>>18610920
I'm not sure what you're getting at but I can assure you you're probably incorrect and misguided

>>18610925
no u

if you think this won't ruin your marriage, then think again. it takes a lot of maturity to actually be able to go trough with this and not have it leave a bitter taste. the fact that sex for you is about how fast you can make someone cum, how big your load is and how easily you can get an erection again, suggests that you are now where near the level you would need to be to be able to keep your initial relationship sane during and after this. but go ahead, just don't say i didn't warn you.

>>18610934
So because I want to make sure we all have a good time and it's not an embarrassing experience you think I'm not mature enough? Yeah ok, you're retarded. Guess this is what I get asking /r9k/s brother board.

had this 3way mff, me fem+ bestfriend fem+ her boyfriend - worst decision in life. We were drunk, she sugested, I could not normally think of consequences and how I would look at them tommorow morning, but somehow agreed... They acted like it was no big deal, me felt guilty (never had thoughts of having 3way before) also felt disgusting, sluty, worthless and so on...
Now I dont even talk to them, we slowly started to drift away and ended up not talking at all... Now friendship ruined with no coming back

>>18610934
This anon knows what's up.
I was like you OP but back in my late 20's with my ex and we had a mff drunken three way and if you still maintain this deluded view on sex after this your marriage is going to go downhill.
After our three way within a month I wanted it again and that did not go down well with her...

>>18610945
that's exaclty the point. you think that making them orgasm, having a big load and so on will ensure a "good time". but that's the last thing that will actually determine if you guys will have a good time. unless you realize this, it will end in a disaster. not just because you didn't realize this, but also because you can only get what i mean when you're mature enough to also get other things that are dangling above you like damokles sword atm.

>>18610950
I can understand that with a mmf and your best friend and her bf, but this situation would be me wife and a girl that is single (not a rando, but not her co worker or bestie or anything) so no interconnection to the 3rd party

>>18610953
Sucks, but not every person and situation is the same

>>18610968
Just bring it up with her and explain why you want to do it and just how she feels about it in general don't put it on her in an immature way.

>>18610896
You're an idiot. You'll cum quick and that will be it, if and thats a big if your wife agrees. Sexual fantasies are powerful stuff and prompt many of us to do wild things but rarely can anyone control real life like they can in their heads.