I'm seeing this girl, and I really like her. I also like showing my affection, especially by kissing. However, she often pushes me away when I try to show it. It never feels good trying to kiss someone and they jerk their head away.
When I want to be alone, say no to hanging out with her or just act distant when we're together, that's when she shows the most interest, not being able to keep her hands off me or nagging me to let her come over. I love when she shows interest in me but she only does it when I'm acting distant, and not when I show affection. I dont want it to be that way, what am I doing wrong?
>>18608177
Ok,diagnostic mode. How old are you. How old is she. Has she been in a relationship before?
She is acting a bit conflicted, which is fine in age 12 to 15, but should be clear by 16+.
Plus she is acting like she isn't sure if she wants it. By 16 she should be totally clear that she wants it - a lot.
>>18608177
Either you two are too young or too dumb. Either way, don't stay in a relationship that makes you feel bad. Learn to say "no" and don't be bribed by "affection" that only shows up when you are leaving.
>>18608192
Im 20, she's 22. We're not in a relasionship yet, just fwb.