Hey I want to fuck, but I don't like the game of talking

>>18607939

Escorts won't help you learn to have a relaitonship. And you'll probably feel like shit afterwards.

On the plus side, you know, it's easy to get laid that way.

Also, as additional advice: You want to get laid AND a relationship. Well, one of those things will have to wait a bit. You have to decide and be patient.

>>18607957
Agreed

Relationships takes more time and effort than a sideways tango.

Yes you'll have to talk to somebody being a rich NEET won't help you find anyone who can 1/2 tolerate you without having to pay them.

Going though this same thing now just take your time it's a marathon not a sprint

Because what you really want is a dirty but loyal slut that will only do that for you and not some chadcock mcgymbrah. Don't settle OP. You have cash. Just pursue your interests like a normal person and the bitches will come.

>>18607957

Not looking to learn anything but sex from an escort. Why would I feel like shit after awesome sex.

As for your additinoal advice I do agree. But i ask myself why i cant see an escort and look for a relationship also.

>>18607973

>implying im rich because i can afford to see escorts
>implying im a neet with girls with the info i provided

in my teens i was good with girls but i wasted like 5 years with drug use. started when i was 18. I finally quit my bad habit thats been bringing me down so much.

>>18608012
>Why would I feel like shit after awesome sex.

>awesome

It's a job for them. It's awesome the first time to get you back, but it's still a pasionless activity.

>But i ask myself why i cant see an escort and look for a relationship also.

You can. I meant it about getting laid or getting a relationship by yourself. As I said, I don't recomend escorts.

>>18607983

That is indeed what I want. But whats wrong with getting some good fucks while i search and work on myself.

>>18608036

Its also a job for pornstars to do porn, yet we all fucking watch it and jack off. I like jacking off.

But thank you for your opinion. That\s my intent with the thread. opinions.

>>18608049
>I like jacking off.

It's your own hand. You are into what you are doing. She isn't. You think you won't notice, and for a while you don't. But eventually you do.

>>18608036

Also, yes its a job, but they can be good at their job cant they.

>>18608064

Sure. Do you have a job? Are you into filling papers or whatever you do?

>>18608070

Not at the moment. going to continue studying soon and have part time work same time.

1 year ago I was in a job i had for 1,5 years and I enjoyed many aspects of it. I enjoyed the overall self improvement as i had to talk to everybody who needed us.

Cant really compare a normal job to an escort job. If i had a job as a male pornstar i guess my answer to your question would be yes which is counter to your point i assume.

i cant use questionmark because my keyboard is fucked lol.

Also who is to say escorts dont get horny and arent into it. Theres plenty of young ones who come here.

>>18608099

There's a video with a couple porn actors explaining how the don't fuck for pleasure, but for show. Both men and women, look it up.

>Also who is to say escorts dont get horny and arent into it.

Yeah, they obviusly do. But do you think they are still horny after the fifth dude in a day they've fucked? After a whole week of fucking dudes for hours? Of fucking you not because they find you attractive or interesting, but because you pay?

I'm sure they can enjoy sex. I'm also sure they can't keep the facade up for eight hours every day. And no, I'm not guessing. I've seen it. They can't.

If you want honest advice and not "Pretty Woman" bullshit, this is it.

>>18608109

Ofc pornstars dont fuck for the purpose of pleasure.

Thats not to say there isnt pleasure involved in the act of fucking for show.

Having my dick sucked by several girls at the same time would feel good for my weewee. For show or not.

Dont care if they find me attractive or interesting. Do you think i fuck them because i think theyre interesting.
No.
I have the option to choose the attractive ones but they kinda dont.
So if they find me attractive and i do them too, your point is kind of invalid.
I dont give a shit about money.

I do see your point about the horniness I do. And I agree. But i think you assume a bit too much about the escorts in my country because many many reweivs from my fellow countrymen say the exact opposite.

I appreciate your honest advice. Theres a reason im here on adv instead of fucking the escort ya know. Still not sure because idk. Kind of a moral thing for me.

>>18608199
>because many many reweivs from my fellow countrymen say the exact opposite.

They guy that introduced me to this is convinced one of the sex workers is in love with him. He has a wife and everything.

So, yeah, don't trust the reviews too much. Some people can't tell the real from the fake.

>>18608208

I can because nobody can write norwegian with translater without failing badly.

>>18608213

The girls also only see ethic norwegian men. atleast thats what they say.

>>18608213

What? I mean that dudes that frequent sex workers usually convince themselves she loves them. It happens a lot.

I'm not saying they are fake norwegian, I'm saying they believe the show the girls put up for them.

>>18608220

ah i missunderstood you. Yea believing anything they say would be quite stupid.

>>18608227

Well, but if you don't believe the show, you are left with passionless sex that's an obligation to the girl. Can you enjoy that?

>>18608229

I dont know. I havent tried. If I let out my inner sex beast i imagine i could.

But hey if theres one fucking thing ive learned in life so far is that ideas and plans can turn out very diffrently in reality than in your head.

>>18608243
>If I let out my inner sex beast i imagine i could.

I would never recomend someone to lose their virginity by paying. Because of everything I've been saying. There's not much else I can add.

If you have some kind of question, shoot. I just don't want to keep repeating myself.

>>18608248

How do you know im a virgin. xp

>>18608255

Are you not?

>>18608259

No. Like i said earlier in the thread I had game with girls in my teens but I started with drugs so my social life went to hell without me even knowing it. I finally reached the boiling point tho and 2 days sober now.

>>18608265
>I finally reached the boiling point tho and 2 days sober now.

Then stop worrying about this shit. One, because you don't need the stress of figuring out your love life when you have barely started working on getting your regular life back on track.

And second, because you don't need to change one addiction for another. Don't pay for sex, and this is not a moral thing. This is to stop you from your own addictive tendencies.

>>18608287

Im not worrying about it. Not at all. Im not a virgin but i havent had much sex. Doesnt bother me one bit.

And yea I agree im getting my shit together as we write. When i get it together I want to start dating girls asap, but the thought of visiting an escort whom will fuck my brains out is tempting. and yes the last thing you said i have thought about too.

I do not want to get to the point where i go pay for sex and screw the dating life. Not happening. That would be a terrible addiction as you say.

Get the escort then.

>>18608311

I have a little experience with addiction in my family. And what I learned is that there's a reason we get addicted to things. Usually, it's not the activity itself, but what we are escaping from.

So I'd focus on that before dating or visiting escorts. You have shaken weed off, now it's time to deal with the underlying issue. Don't let something else distract you again.

>>18608317

Yep. its not the weeds fault ive been high nearly non stop for 5 years except work hours.

That was my plan. To work on the underlying issues before i started dating. Notice i didnt say I wanted to see an escort right now. Neither do I want to date right now.

My only insecurity when it comes to ladies is my weight. Im skin and bones.

>>18608317

anyways thanks for the talk man im off to bed.