So I'm a little concerned about the state of my penis. I've heard that the more and more a man faps, some will become desensitized due to porn and this can lead to erectile disfunction. I've fapped for many years now, and I can consider myself an addict, but despite my seemingly incessant sex drive, and a girlfriend who's more than willing to please me any way she can, I just can't be lead to orgasm in any way that isn't self-directed; and I'm a bit concerned that this may cause my girlfriend to feel inadequate or that I'm not sexually attracted to her. Because I am, I can't keep my hands off of her, but I find it odd that despite all of my fantasies about getting my first blowjob, when my girlfriend finally surprised me with one, I honestly felt a little numb to any feeling. I got some stimulation at some points, but they're outliers. Any /adv/ice?
>>18606884
Fap less often.
I guess you were probably looking for a way around that, but I've been there, and I actually lost the gf due to escalating the kinky stupid shit I would ask for. She did like some of it though. Anyway, try not fapping for a day, fap the next day and see the difference. You'll most likely feel a lot more sensitive and you know what to do from there. (Hint: save it for your gf).