I am currently in highschool and i'm what most people would

>>18606397
try being in highschool and never having had a gf period

Don't be beta

>>18606409
*cracks open beer*
this shit bro, jus b urself

You should get into more situations where people are forced to interact with you so that way they'll like you more. Like join the swim team or something and then when they are your friends maybe they'll invite you since your current friends won't. And if you can't get people to invite you, try inviting people yourself. I didn't have friends until I invited a bunch to go see James bond with me a few years ago and it worked out great. And if you want a girlfriend, befriend girls that are friends of someone you find attractive and then have them set you guys up, or you could just skip all that and try talking to a girl you think is pretty directly and seeing how it goes.

Also you need to be over 18 to post here

>>18606397
Honestly, just don't give a fuck, but more importantly be confident about it.

If you act like you only care about yourself and hold your head up high while doing it, people will notice.

By this I mean when the group of cool kids are huddled in a circle looking at something or whatnot, don't be interested.

If you think you don't look exactly like the shit somedays, remind yourself that you're the fucking best thing you've ever had. I swear no one will care.

Just hold up your head, walk through the bullshit and care for yourself and yourself only. Don't worry about girls, no matter what your dick says, you don't need them right now, trust me, they will become easier and easier to attract once you get confidence in yourself.

Have fun in HS, bud. and remember, those ARE NOT the best 4 years of your life.

>>18606435
thanks for the advice, also sorry i didnt know you had to be 18+ to post here.

>>18606439
thank you

This is what you do. Realize that instead of fitting in, stand out. Be you in the sense be confident in who you are because nobody else will. You'll you will be comfy with yourself and a lot of people you hung around won't remain. Weather you don't like them, or do like them and are just clueless, they don't like you for who you are. That can be because they generally don't like you, or they don't really know you because as a beta male you lack your own identity. How do you fix this? Lift. Do things that make you uncomfortable more often

>>18606397
You don't have to be a turbo-chad to have fun, get some hobbies and make a small group of friends.
Not reported because you seem like a cool guy

>>18606397
That shit happens, smoke all the weed you need but don't become a drunk... didn't work for me.

The more you get out of your comfort zone, ideally with physical activity, the closer you will come to escaping this social discomfort

The more you escape from your current unhappiness with your life using drugs, 4chan and porn, the longer the true dislike of your current state will last.

Easily into late 20s.
The current temptations of our world will literally break your emotional regulation and destroy your young brain if you are not very very careful

I'm gonna let you in on an ancient 4chan secret. It social situations just relax your anus. I dont know if it removes block chakra lines or what, but it always makes socializing easier, sometimes effortless. People will like you more. I have no idea who came up with this method, but I saw it when I was in high school and started using it. I'm not sure if its magic and too many people using it will ruin the method so don't go around telling everyone, you seem like you need help so I'm giving it to you. Take care.

Heres a tip. If you make a fool outa yourself in a social setting just brush it off like nothing. Don't show what you're thinking.

For example, if I was to be called out to be a virgin I would openly admit it and brush it off like nothing.

Try not to show your insecurities. Be a man. Put yourself out there and don't be afraid to look like a fool.

>>18606397
Start running/ lifting. Most of the people in High School wont matter to you in a few years, so don't worry too much. Fake your confidence desu. Fake it till you make it,.

Just ask your friends "what are you doing this weekend"

If they say they're going to a bar or something ask if it's alright you tag along.

I remember being in the same situation, all I had to do was ask, nobody is going to ask you out if they hardly know you.

>>18606663
>Most of the people in X wont matter to you in a few years
I'm only 22, but I feel like you could constantly say this throughout your entire life.

but agree with everything else this post says. Confidence and being attractive causes people to ask you out first, and be more open to hanging with you OP.

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>>18606397
>I am currently in highschool and i'm what most people would consider a "beta male",

There is no male in highschool who isn't a beta male. Even the quarter back of the high school football team is a beta male when compared to a successful full grown man. Doesn't matter if you're talking about height, muscle, wealth, or ability to obtain sex. All males in high school are betas when compared to adult men.

>I have "friends" but they never send me messages or invite me to hang out,

So become more valuable.

>and I think they might just be using me.

Then use them back. It's called fair trade.

>I haven't had a girlfriend since 2015, and no girls seem interested in me.

Welcome to being a high schooler. One day you will face the opposite problem.

Wait until you're in your 40s and have money. The issue will be, "How do I prevent women from taking my money?"

>Tomorrow morning school starts again, any advice on how to improve myself?

Lift weights. Also, find something people are willing to pay for online. Then start a small online business to pull in money.

And while you're at it, stop posting yourself under an avatar that committed suicide as a kissless virgin.

>>18606397
Not entirely sure if you posted that particular image to suggest that you're becoming depressed to the point of doing something out of the ordinary. For the record, I have not been in a relationship since I was 18 in 2010, but it's mostly my fault because I just haven't cared to look. I get invited by so-called "friends" and co-workers, but I turn them down because I'd rather be at home (I'm a bit of an introvert). How I managed to establish that privilege (if that's what you call it) is by simply being funny, confident, and friendly. Even if you are feeling like shit, put on a fake smile and make use of levity. Be self-deprecating, but in a humorous and humble kind of way. Even though it may not be genuine, it's a facade that makes you friends and gets you invited to shitty events.

Anon if you want to go out with your friends just ask if you can join them.

Just

ask.