Is it weird to walk to a girl in a public swimming pool and say "would you mind if keep you some company?" I'm in a small village on vacation for a week and I'm lonely af.
>>18605671
Seek help anon
>>18605675
Urgently
>>18605675
WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BOARD?
>>18605671
Don't say that. Approaching girls is fine but that's something a fedora would say.
>>18605709
Well my fucking repertory ends there
>>18605671
If I were a gurl I would feel raped
So no, don't fucking do it
Don't even go near her. Use the thing called -distance-
You are not in a book nor a fucking novel, this is real life. Just keep your cool and do your thing, let others do their thing. Only come into contact if it's obvious the other side wants to
Fucking idiot, I hate people like you
No anon, the world does not go around you in a circle 24/7
As a female, I would think it's weird. Just strike up a conversation and see where it goes. Great conversation starters are visuals. Like if they're wearing a necklace you could compliment it, then ask where it's from. You could also talk about the weather. It's not a good idea to just say that, it would make me feel like you've been watching me if I heard someone say that. Don't let it be known that you're trying to tag along with her or anything. Be casual, make your main goal to have a conversation. Woman are alot more easier to deal with when they don't think a guy is just trying to hook up with them
>>18605671
Sure, go for it. Worse thing they could say is no.
>>18605721
>Woman are alot more easier to deal with when they don't think a guy is just trying to hook up with them
If the guy his hot is totally a different story. A girl could eventually feel like shit if a hot guy isn't trying to hoop up with her.
>>18605740
sorry, *is hot
>>18605717
T. Autist
>>18605717
Yes, you are actually right, I'm sorry, I should be ashamed.
>>18605721
Both ways to strike a conversation seem to be pretty straight forward to me, but I see your point, thanks.
>>18605671
What the hell man. What. The. Hell.
Be yourself, do your thing at the pool, have fun. Try to make some eye contact with her, but don't be persistent. If you have a vibe that she looks at you, go and ask her about something that she has, like a necklace(credits to previous anon), ask where she got it, because you want one for your sister as a birthday gift, or something. You can do it senpai
>>18605671
its fine if you get in the pool and just say 'hey hows it going'. dont say 'mind if i keep you some company?' thats just weird.
but just go in the pool like you're going to enjoy a swim on your own, then give a friendly hi, and try to strike up a conversation
>>18605812
>>18605838
Ok seems reasonable. Thanks for the tips.
Yes, from this perspective my first statement was kinda weird.