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How do i relax and enjoy myself around her?
Just started going out with a girl, and she likes me a lot. We couldn't keep our hands off each other all evening yesterday. I like her too, but my anxiety is keeping me from being truly happy. I've been ghosted/rejected so many times before that i'm sort of holding my breath expecting it to happen again. But it seems like i finally met a girl who appreciates me.
I just want to kick back and be able to relax with her. I feel kind of drained today because i spent 8 hours with her being all nervous.
She said she gets nervous around me too, but the good, excited kind. Mine is like a constant drip of adrenaline that cancels out that nice feeling of butterflies, and tenses me up.
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How did you approach her?
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>>18602099
You can't predict the future, so you can't know if she'll ghost you. Additionally girls have ghosted you before and regardless of that you still managed to find this girl you're getting anxious over. Even if your worst fear becomes a reality what happens? You'll survive and you're currently in that "post what if she ghosts me" world now, and is it as bad as you imagined it would be if this girl ghosted you in the future?
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