>Been dating guy for the past 2 months
>A week after we start dating he got into a mess, changed jobs, etc
>I've been helping him nonstop
>I feel taken for granted and unappreciated
Should I suck it up and wait for better days? I'm constantly worried and under a lot of stress. I'm not expecting anything back but I feel things won't get better for him anytime soon and he doesn't value how much I help him/worry
>>18599559
What makes you stay ?
>>18599568
Well, I love him
>>18599570
Have you talked it out with him ?
>>18599572
No... I have implied it though. I feel guilty to tell him I'm feeling like this. He has enough in his mind
>>18599582
When you say you're "helping" him, do you mean you're giving him money or paying for his stuff?
>>18599582
Ah I feel you. It's not an easy situation to be in.
Where all that stress coming from ? Why is your bf is in such a slump ?
Had a similar situation when i started my current relationship of 5 years, she fell off with her family and lost her job a couple months into the relationship. I let her move in with me amd supported her for a good 6 months, shit was rough. Then two years in, I lost my job and she supported me until i got back on my feet. Would have been homeless if not for her.
I dont know how cool your relationship is, but a relationship is a team effort. Talk with him, not at him when you approach him.
>if he is a nigger leave tho
Leave him, he deserves better
Your boyfriend is all wrapped up and stressed trying to get his shit together and you worry about how you feel lol. And you won't even approach or talk to him about it. It sounds like you're resentful for him not giving attention to you