hey guys, could really use some help on this. i was in a relationship

bumping if cool

>>18596981
You shouldn't be talking so often
tell her that you want to move on and be emotionally more available for potential dates and then do it. The closer you stay the more it will hurt

>>18597065
yeah youre probably right, it was hard to do since i was still getting nudes till about 2 weeks ago (she was still 'seeing' him).

i messaged her yesterday just about some random and she hasnt replied yet, should i wait a few days and then let her know or just rip the bandaid tonight?

>>18597091
i think it doesnt really matter. just consider what exactly you want to say and maybe sit on that message/phone call script for a day

>>18597101
appreciate it homes. i think i knew it deep down but needed to hear someone else tell me.

good vibrations your way.

>>18596981

You were dating a girl. Girl moved away. You broke up with girl. Girl starts dating another guy.

I'm not sure why you're confused what your role is in this situation.

>>18596981
Obligatory cuck
Anyway serous advice
Maybe cut her out cus it might hurt a lot to keep her around while she sleeps with another man. It would fuck with my head. Anyway just my 2 cents. If you can handle it and not give a shit than be a good friend but I feel it's pretty clear you want to be more than friends with her.

so she just replied then while i was typing out a draft.


i need to move on and be emotionally available again. The closer i stay the more it hurts. i think we need a bit of distance for a bit. staying in this kind of relationship limbo doesn’t do what we used to have any justice, and i think its beginning to discolour what i think was a period of genuine importance. you know i care for you, but i think this is whats best for both us us.

and yeah im aware of how cucky it sounds, but im also not a fucking asshole either

>>18596981

maybe dont even script it, just ignore her for a while, let it die more naturally, no need to turn it into a soap opera

ok yeah i think i will call it quits.

should i tell her i need to move on or just ghost?

tell her you need to move on, don't be a dick about it

>>18597205
im just worried that if i tell her something like we need a break, it will end up indefinite, if i just stop talking to her so much than we can still be friends, we message eachother every day

plus im pretty sure i can still get me nudes

For your sake you need to let her go. You are still attached and you shouldn't let it go any further. If she comes back home try again then. Try to limit communication slowly, and leave on good terms. Let her enjoy her new life and don't hold her back.

If she gets serious with anyone there is nothing you can do about it but interfere with her life

>>18597246
Nudes'll stop long before its worth it anymore. Be honest. If you want to remain friends in the long run you'll have a better chance with a clean break. Otherwise it has a better chance of getting muddy. Be there casually on your time. Don't make yourself too emotinally available at the beginning because you are right you're too close right now to focus on anything new coming your way.

Seems like you have a good head on your shoulders either way. Best of luck to you.

appreciate the adv brother. shes still messaging me now but i think ill start toning down the replies. simple smileys etc. its sad to lose a best friend but yeah its really been hurting.

>>18597285
thank you brother. very well said.
and luck to you.

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