I don't know how to be alone, physically or emotionally.

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2017-08-06 08:37:23 Post No. 18596238
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Anonymous 2017-08-06 08:37:23 Post No. 18596238 [Report]

I don't know how to be alone, physically or emotionally. I can't seem to function without a roommate or at least "someone" there.
With companion
>Eat healthy, normally timed meals
>Work out regularly
>Do productive stuff or have fun
>Proper hygiene

Without companion
>Shit meals, lots of skipping
>12+ hours in bed (only leaving for work, computer)
>Shit hygiene
>bored

It's not even a case of gf or friend; put me in a building with someone else and I'm super well-adjusted and happy, but as soon as I'm "on my own," as soon as half a day goes by alone, I end up in bed most of the day or disregarding everything else in my life.

I try to set routines and stuff, but I just feel like ass most of the time (stomachaches/headaches when I try to, you know, live). I dunno if it's placebo, but it just discourages me from being anything other than lazy.

Anonymous 2017-08-06 08:58:56 Post No.18596286
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Sounds like codependent behavior
Since you're not attached to anyone in specific chances are you'll set out to find a spouse to groom into becoming codependent on your presence
That would solve your problem of ever worrying of being alone. And since you're human, this leverage over a person might increase the risk of you becoming abusive.
But what do I know?

Anonymous 2017-08-06 10:56:43 Post No.18596624
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Anonymous 2017-08-06 10:56:43 Post No.18596624 [Report]

>>18596286
I dunno about codependency. Looking it up, I don't have many of the signs (no one's making sacrifices to make me better, and it's not necessarily a specific person.) It's just that I don't tend to function "normally" in life when no one is around. Like no one's watching.

Anonymous 2017-08-06 11:00:29 Post No.18596634
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Anonymous 2017-08-06 11:00:29 Post No.18596634 [Report]

I'm the other way

I thrive on being alone. I can learn new things, improve skills, workout etc.

When I'm with someone I become obsessive about them and can't function as I would if. I had been alone.

In your early to mid twenties, people say you have to get a girl or this and that

But damn, the relationship mind games is fun and all but it really slows down my plans. Not to mention the time and money spent/wasted on a potential who can ghost you at anytime. Its very hard to be invested .

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