My birthday just passed and I got no sex/blowjob from my significant other of 3 years. I've told her before, all I need to be happy is blowjob and jokes.
The major problem for me is that I HATE having to ask for sex, etc. It feels incredibly beta/needy. And then if she is not in the mood, which is a lot nowadays, then the feeling of rejection is sickening.
How do I get her to want to hook up, without being explicit?
>>18595451
make a move like you would a girl you havnt been in a relationship with for years. not really reasonable to expect a long time partner to eventually become a free sex dispenser i mean the other person needs to be turned on too.
3 years. Dump.
Ask her how you can satisfy her. If you show an interest in her sex life, she will show interest in yours. Communicate openly and honestly.
>>18595451
How's your relationship otherwise? Women need romancing to stay in the mood. Do you go on dates, do shit together, anything like that? If she doesn't feel in love with you, she won't be feeling like making love either.