>21 years old >Don't feel capable of attaining a girlfriend

Relationships require effort, this is true. But for good relationships, the effort is worth it and often doesn't feel like work. A good, healthy relationship gives us a a source of support and comfort, emotional connection, and the confidence to go out into the world knowing they've got our back. Good relationships also often encourage personal growth and teach you skills in communication and empathy

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My ex girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend's older brother. I started treating women like objects after that and took my education religiously. Now I work for a hedge fund manager and make over $400k (mostly on passive income). I bought my first house when I was 22 while I was still in college and I'm starting my own land development company soon. I'm single. I live alone. I'm estranged from my family, and the few friends that I have still make fun of me for taking my work too seriously. Despite all of my "success" I still long for affection. Humans are innately programmed to feel pleasure from carnal desires due to the necessity of fulfilling the evolutionary duty of procreation. I know a woman in my life that I can be completely vulnerable with is what I'm missing in my life. I guess I'll just keep dreaming.

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>Good relationships

That's something that's very hard to attain where I come from.