>calls crying hysterically >what's wrong? >"m-muh-...muh-"

>>18593905
She's trying to reach out for you for comfort and empathy. By dismissing her pain or making her feel like her problem and emotions are stupid, you're showing her that it's not safe to open up or get close to you. She may start to withdraw and distance herself if she feels she can't rely on you and you don't have her back

>>18593923
Okay, but why are they retarded?

>>18593923
this guy speaks truth.

do your eyerolling after she is gone. I can't handle when my gf does that shit either, but I just play the game.

>Just tell her to fuck off
You're also retarded. You two were made for each other.

>>18593927
Why is it retarded for her to turn to her loved one when she's in need of support?

What seems trivial to some people can be a big deal for other people. We all have our emotional sore spots that, if prodded, turn us into a ball of emotions. Some people get angry, other people get terrified, some withdraw and shut down, and other people get sad. Perhaps this situation irritated one of her mental wounds, but you didn't bother to ask so you wouldn't know!

Women just want someone to listen to them talk. Not counsel. Not explain things. They literally just want to vent out loud and be told they are right.

>>18593970
That suspiciously sounds like /pol/