I don't want to break up with my girl friend, but it feels like something that needs to be done. I don't know if its because we hung out 8 days in a row, or what. But I just can't take her anymore. I love her, but she's so clingy now. In the beginning, I expelled so much love, and she was just receiving. She got annoyed by the amount of attention I was giving her, it was too much, I see that now, so I stopped. But she's doing the samething now. We're on two different pages, and we don't see eye to eye on a number of things. I find myself repeating the same stories to her, and the only times I feel close to her is when we're having sex. The person I'm with now, just isn't who I fell in love with. I love her a lot, but I don't know how much I can take. She's my first girlfriend, and she's been in 3 relationships, with a number of one night stands. We're both starting school this month, so we'll be seeing each other less. I don't know how to break up with her, because I have strong as feelings for her, but I feel its me loving the girl I feel in love with 6 months ago.
>>18593412
Jeezuz Anon you are me. It's like I want my gf to be completely obsessed and enamored by me, but on my own terms. They are so needy and if we don't show them attention and interest at all times it means we "don't love them anymore". It's a difficult fence to walk but I've found it lies on me to change and if she can't grow with me...then it's time to grow apart. Relationships work when two people are on the same level not two different ones. How old are you?
>>18593412
talk to her first and give her a chance, if you're gonna break with all your gfs for this reason you'll end up with tons of ex-gfs...