>Look at average woman IRL
>Don't feel anything
>See a cute girl
>Heart flutters and get flung into an extreme panic
>Get absolutely devastated as my brain contorts a human being into the visage of perfection in human form
>Feel extreme anxiety and fall into a despondency and believe it's impossible for me to ever really get a girlfriend
How do I get over this feeling?
I never used to have it when I was around cute girls in High-school, but now that I'm in the real world, I can't stop it from happening.
Get the fuck off the internet. Seriously these problems never existed before the internet was commonplace.
>>18593258
I'm constantly outside though.
I'm just never around the opposite sex.
>>18593252
Just remind yourself that just because she's cute doesn't mean she's the girl you want. She could be a slut for all you know. Don't get caught up in appearances unless that's literally all you want.
>>18593267
What if she is the girl I want, but I can't get to know her because I shit my pants and die when I see her face?
>>18593270
I'm saying to stop projecting perfection on to her. Your nervous because you want her to be the girl you like. Just treat her like anyone else you don't know. Don't get caught up thinking she's the one and that you can't treat her like a normal person.
>>18593275
It's totally involuntary though, and that's why it's such a problem.
I can't believe I'm doing this as a 21-year-old man. These are issues for teenagers.
Anyway, I've discovered the cure.
I just jerk off and go for a walk after I do so.