ldr virgin hi anons let me tell you why i feel like shit today.

well she is japanese so I think they don't see it as bad as westerners. I think women only mind if you have low self esteem because of it and also carry along the other stereotypes virgins tend to have
>acting weird and shy around girls
>still living at home
>only hobbies are video games and watching cartoons

>>18592844
maybe but i dont think i carry the other stereotype virgins do..
I mean, i had lots of experience with girls, just never got to the actual point of fucking one..
I see sex as something rly special, idk why, like its another level of bonding with a person, I never had a person that i liked that much that i wanted to experience it with him yet.

i honestly dont think i am a loser but when i actually thought about this, it kind of hit me harder than i expected.

>>18592830
been in the same spot, online transatlantic 17yo gf when I was 20 and I was (am) a virgin. I too found it unsettling to think about someone else fucking her, or her sucking on another guys dick. unfortunately it's a fact of life that women have sex before men do and something we just need to de with.

I suggest you get over it by any means possible before it harms your relationship as it did with mine.

>>18592830
Dude its just sticking your dick in someone, idkw why you stress yourself about that stuff.
There are ton of people out there who fcked around and still dont know shit abou t sex.It doesnt automaticly make you a pornstar or some wise chinese man who knows everything about sex.

Most people are virgins, they just lie because of todays fcked up social norms that say you are somekind of loser if you didnt stick your dick into something as soon as it got first time hard.
>People who boast they arent virgins are usualy total losers with only that acomplisment in their lives.
>You watched porn , its basicly that, nothing special, just make sure someone is happy next to you when you do it.Makes waking up next morning much better.

>>18592830
Also focus on more how your relationship could work out because of the distance and stuff like that. Everyone likes virgins since you are sure they didnt love someone before you,and they will give their best first time, thats why in 3rd world shitholes being a virgin is a must be.

>>18592830
>20
>Virgin
>Haven't had a girlfriend before, but don't care enough to change that

I need to get an internet girlfriend.
Thanks for the heads-up OP

>>18592868
>Most people are virgins

CDC statistics disagree

http://health.howstuffworks.com/sexual-health/sexuality/how-many-people-die-virgins-never-have-sex.htm

>>18592862
i already dont really mind the part that someone else fucked her, i mean she dated her ex for 2 years its just obvious theyd have had sex at some point.
the thing that bothers me is the fact that she might see me as less of a men for being a virging despite being 20 years old..
>>18592868
i dont care about that, thats why i didnt lie to her (and ive easily could), its just that now that ive told her and based of her reactions it looks like it made her see me not as masculine anymore lol, probably overthinking shit but thats how i do
>>18592876
ofc, i mean were just "dating" a week, it seems really sweet but im not really sure about the whole deal, its just so fucking hard (me having my own life and shit going on and hers) plus those fucking time differences are not helping
>>18592893
i dont get it if you were trying to tease me or ??
ive had a gf before and dated other girls just didnt fuck them ._.
she suddenly confessed to me and wanted to try this out so why the fuck not, also improving my japanese like a mofo

>>18592955
>>18592893
I'm totally sincere.
It's impossible for me to get a girlfriend IRL

>>18592960
western women suck dick (literally) compared to japanese women imo, well thats just my experience from talking to shit tons of them on a daily basis..

do your best anon your time will come

>>18592949
And how did they get those statistics? By asking people hmm ?
You would be surprised how much people are virgins in their late twenties.Im not talking about majority, but the numbers are surely strong
>at least from my experiance.

>>18592955
>876
relationships should be something you rejoyce about, not a chore you make yourself do.
If you find it difficult to keep it up,
brake up and find some girl near you.(at least same country)

>>18593088
There's no real reason to lie.
It's not like they brazenly force you to shout it out in front of other people.

You'd be shocked at what goes on.

In my experience, kids start having sex when they turn 14. It's a horrible reality we live in.

>>18593088
Also, the numbers are very strong.
5%, or 1 in 20 is no laughing matter.

>>18592830
I was a virgin until 21. My outlook on things has been a who gives a fuck kind of approach so I never cared to get laid. Honestly, sex is OK so don't worry too much about it. I was nervous moving on from making out on a couch to the bedroom but once you get there its all downhill. If you're worried about performing bad on your first time then there are things you can do to kill sensitivity in your penis to last longer and study up on foreplay.

>>18593170
How did you lose your virginity?
I don't have any friends, and I'm too disconnected from people in my neighborhood.

>>18592830
Break up and get a local girl friend. Long distance relationships are the biggest trap you can get yourself into unless you have already been steady for a long time before it became a long distance and even then only on rare occasions

And yes being virgin reduces your value in the eyes of women. The subconscious thought is that if other females aren't interested why should she.

>>18593177
It was a girl that was staying at my families place. My family has a habit of helping people in need. Christian mentality I guess.

Didn't like her at first but eventually we started dating 2 months into knowing each other. I asked if she wanted to hang out at my place with the intent to have sex. We sat on the couch for a few hours , me nervous, too scared to make a move until I finally leaned in for a kiss, then I felt her up. Still too nervous so we're making out for 40 minutes until I tell her let's move it into the bedroom. Then we had sex.

The first time is nerve racking, but once you get the balls to do it all that worry drops. Just don't be forceful or throw yourself on her in desperation. It's good to be giving. Put her pleasure before yours.

>>18593177
Also people seem to be telling you to break up with your ldr gf and that no one likes virgins. Fuck em. I'm a 6/10 at best but I was still having luck with women even before I was having sex. How you carry yourself matters.

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>>18593101
While this is true, I only need to "bear" just 1 year.
Eventually I'll move there, be closer to her and the time were having now will be nothing but a memory we'll cherish.
>>18593185
it is hard but I think it's managable because I have a plan going into this, I want to believe she will stick to me even if we dont see each other until next year.
what the hell do I have to lose from this? (worst case scenario she breaks up with me and ill cry for a few days)..

>>18592830
If you've never met in person she's not your girlfriend

I'll say it again:

If you've never met in person she's not your girlfriend

>>18594542
if i go and meet her in 2 months for 3 days, will then she by my gf?
just your answer from this will make you realize how retarded u sound