So /adv/ I'm a KHV neet wizard about to go back to school

>>18591887
>Should I avoid trying to date anybody since I'm so undesirable?
But how bad do you fucking look? And you better not post your face.
Improve your physical appearance if you want a date, no one wants to be friends with that greasy smelly retard that forgot to take a shower and his crotch smells worse than his armpits.

>If not, should i use tinder or okcupid or what?
Sex = Tinder
LTR = OkCupid most of the time, but sex as well

>Should I just look for relationships of convenience instead a long term thing? I kinda really just want physical affection.. I want a gf stable but i don't think i am capable of fulfilling the role as a bf in a relationship. Especially not 'on my first outing' as it were
If you're that unsure, then just lose your virginities and maybe live the celibate life.

I need to sleep but some anon will answer you better.
Hopefully.

>>18591912
I meant my KHV neet wizard status being the undesirable part

As for appearance.. I could probably put in minimal effort and figure out how to look decent. but fashion/appearance related shit bores me which is why i haven't already done it. Plus i'm self conscious. If a new look doesn't resonate with me i'll just hate it even though it might look great to anyone else. being in my head sucks lol. suffice it to say, m biggest issues are hairstyle and dress. if you don't count me having the personality of a tape dispenser

Ok i'll try to remember that about tinder and okc. May give tinder a spin though my friend suggested i might use that.. or maybe it was okc.. anyway thanks for that bit of info

>If you're that unsure, then just lose your virginities and maybe live the celibate life.
I've considered it. But i also dont want my first time be that story i've read here and there on soc and r9k...
fucks some mediocre to decent partner. feels like shit afterwards, hollow, etc
Thats the third reason i haven't more seriously considered using escorts - just how empty it supposedly is (aside from addicted people anyway) the other two being potential STDs and money obviously

>>18591934
Your self-consciousness makes you seem needy, and most girls don't fuck with guys who are needy.
You're lucky you're not fat or disfigured or anything, getting a haircut and buying new clothes is simple. Most new fashion doesn't look good on anyone unless you're gay or a celebrity anyways. Just keep it simple.

Don't use dating apps because dating apps are for faggots. Don't use Tinder especially if you're looking for something more special than a mediocre hookup with some chick that will probably give you STD's.

All you need to do is get confident.
When you get confident, approach girls.

>>18591977
I mean i'm self conscious about how i look which is why i don't budge nor bother when it comes to changing my appearance
Unless you are talking about something else

I'm not averse to dating apps just assessing options. But yes, 'mediocre hookups' are on the table, though i'd rather leave STDs off it lol

>>18591983
It seems to me like it's more than just about your appearance, but if it's just your looks than the only way to fix it is if you change. Stay still or move forward. Like I said, if you're not fat or disfigured or something you're probably fine. And even if you were fat, lose weight.

And hey, how you choose to get laid is totally up to you. Just my opinion. At least you're not considering hookers, guys who lose it to hookers look beta as hell to females. Trust me.

>>18591887
>wizard

Like you're over 30?

>>18592060
Yes

>>18592029
You're reading more into it than I think I intended, but fair enough.
And I have considered hookers backup plan for if i make it as far as 39 I suppose lol

>>18592080
You're over 30? Shit, I thought you were just a kid in highschool or something. Lol

>>18592095
I did say i was KHV neet wizard LOL

>>18592097
I didn't know what that meant. I don't spend a lot time on the internet, I spend it in the real world getting laid

>>18592099
nice, nice
appreciate your time regardless