This girl I like talks to me every day for several hours, when

>>18591501
She wants a fuckbuddy and not a relationship

>>18591503
Then why does she text me constantly all day and want to go out on dates with me.

>>18591506
youre not "the one" in her mind. you probably never will be.

either stand your ground and tell her you need more from her or just continue a casual relationship that isnt headed anywhere

Trust me dude, i was in the same situation as you. You are gonna keep having sex, you are gonna develop feelings for her and as soon as you want to be with her she will cut off all the sex and intimacy. And you will fucking suffer.

So ask her if she wants a relationship and tell her if you won't be together you want nothing to do with her. Cut it off now before it's too late. You are not seeing it now but you are heading to devastation territory.

>>18591506
Is she calling them dates, or are you?

>>18591520
I don't think either of us ever said the word date, but I don't think I have ever said the word date out loud for any date I have ever been on.

>>18591531
Eh, fair enough. My point was that hanging out can either just be hanging out with a friend, or having a date with a partner. I had friends with benefits that I liked to chill with outside of fucking

>>18591501
Most people have circles of others. These circles include categories, one of which is "people I can fuck." She didn't include you in this circle until you declared your sexual interest ("put romantic moves on her"). That was disjunctive to her, and she initially rejected the idea of including you in that circle. Time passed. She realized that you fit there. She fucks you now. The only problem is that you are anticipating "romantic" feelings as an attachment to the sex. These do not necessarily exist, and if you continue to have expectations of them (regardless of how "good" or "special" the sex it), then you will likely continue to be disappointed. You must explain your hopes and expectations to this person, and then figure out whether there is ever the possibility of what you want being what they want. If not, then either take the sex (I mean, why not), or decide that since it will not lead to what you want, you must stop.

>>18591549
I will try this.