How do you make the cost benefit analysis of when to end a relationship?
Been with a girl 2.5 and we've been "engaged" pretty much that whole time. She's got mental issues, dependency shit, and refuses doctors or therapy. OCD as fuck which is annoying to have to live with. She's intelligent but nothing special. Tumblr tier.
But she's a genuinely good person. And she's genuinely obsessed with me. Like, I'm afraid she'll kill herself if i end it outta nowhere like this, but I can't keep responding to constant "i love yous" to someone i''m not sure i love fuck that
Clearly im conflicted and high. Any advice anons?
>>18591434
does she do all of the things that you want her to do?
>>18591454
she tries, but her ocd keeps her from doing a lot. And she's bipolar. i never know when she'll be acting crazy.
>>18591459
after 2 years, if she hasnt learned how to do the things you want her to do, its time to either crack down on her autonomy or move on. you cant let crazy off the leash.