Dear /adv/
I feel as though I'm super sexual. I masterbate several times a week's watching porn all the time.
>just get new gf
>very sweet girl
>honestly want to marry her
>don't want her getting the wrong impression
>really not wanting to only make love to her
>know she would eventually ask about my fapping
>what do
>really don't want to push her away but also don't want to immediately make love to her
>really thinking about holding off on it till we are at least close to tying our knot
I'm genuine about how I feel about her sometimes I'm too horny. I know I only just started dating her but I've never felt so sure.
>>18590514
I fap at least once per day. Horny teen boys fap even more having opportunity and free time to do so. Every girl knows this as well.
All you need to do is to keep asking your "gf" on dates, do some stupid romantic gestures, hand holding, cuddling and once she let you, fuck her hard like your life is dependant on it.
Dont overthink problems and do what feels natural. And yes, girls want the sex too and often schlick too. They just pretend they dont to gain upper hand in dating game.
Unless she asks, dont tell. But know that you dont build relationship on lies. Good luck!
You've made a good point. But the problem is that I don't want to just have sex with her. I would prefer to build something with her...maybe after, we could slowly become more sexual. I basically don't want to rush into anything.
>>18590645
Severe case of overthinking. Just be nice, friendly, flirt and see what will happen. No you cant break things with sex. She is either into you or isnt.
There is no point is denying sex when both of you want it badly. Go with the flow and enjoy.
>>18590514
Ahhhh you just met the girl and started dating and feel like that she is the one to marry.
>>18590514
Just be honest with her. If she is mature, she will understand that all guys fap. There is a saying; there are two types of guys; guys who masterbate, and guys who lie about it.
I honestly don't know how old you are but Im a 27 year old female and I expect that every guy I go on a date with, faps on his off time. Its a normal thing. Being able to talk openly about it is healthy and if you have a girl that you can be open too, that means that duo relationship is healthy.
If you like this girl so much, and you guys are perfect for each other, why cant you openly discuss masterbation with each other?
>>18590514
masturbation is normal and healthy, and if it that makes her uncomfortable its HER problem, not yours.