>Background: short, gay, black, chubby chaser, body/height

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>Background: short, gay, black, chubby chaser, body/height dysphoria
>See a cute guy a couple of times at Starbucks
>Work up the courage to ask for his number, ask first if he's not straight ("yes") and he's taken ("open")
>Chat by phone a lot, seem to hit it off
>Hoping to meet up
>At one point he says he's glad I'm not judgmental
>Wait
>"Open"
>I thought he meant he was open to a relationship
>He meant he's poly and engaged

Oh. Well. After only ever getting attention from guys who are already taken and looking for some fun, I guess it was too good to be true. I've been depressed for a few days now because this seems to have crystallized my suspicions that I'll never be man enough to attract an SO but that I'm perfectly suited for some alpha's harem. I dunno if I want to give in to my nature and meet up with him or reject it and stay unhappy and alone.